Thursday, November 18, 2010
Relationship Boundries -By: Sana Naseer Shaikh
Life is a series of experiences, each one of which makes us bigger even though it is hard to realize this. For the world was built to develop character; And we must learns that the setbacks & grieves which we endure help us in our marching onwards.Truth & love are the two most important ingredients for any relationships. Love because all positive relationships begin with friendship,appreciation & respect.Truth because no relationships can grow from dishonesty, deceit & betrayals. Loving too much doesn't heart.It is when we expect this love to be reciprocated that we begin to seek, approval & acceptance of the things we have done & when we are taken for granted & rejected,we curse the very same love that we once-freely & happily offered.Everything in life is temporary because everything changes, that is why it takes great courage to love knowing it might end anytime but having the faith that it will last forever...
Love is a more of a choice you enter a relationship because you want to give your initial feelings of "like,"admiration","crush",or "attraction",a chance to develop into a that deeper feeling called "Love"... Love happens to develop ...but it doesn't just happen ...we choose to make it happen.Love is so magical, just think of how two people met regardless of their race, faith, culture & the miles between them.But here one thing, I must mention here: Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationship because you can never find love if you insist that you are already in to it. Try to find time to really understand your real feelings, to know who you really are & what you really want in a relationship.You're right there's no such thing as a perfect relationship, but there's a compatible partnership that goes along with it. If your already knew that you're too big to fit into a small sized t-shirt, don't give it a try.You'll probably break it & pay for the damages, you have made.
Excellent saying by a great philosopher:
Love is that beautiful forest where brave tigers are killed by the attractive eyes of beautiful deers.
You don't have to forget someone you love what you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself,you would better off-giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving.